My Girlfriend

Dear _______,

I realize we are going through a tough time right now but I do believe we can get through this if we are able to openly, honestly, and respectfully communicate with each other about our feelings and our needs. Maybe we haven’t really communicated before, but I would like that to change - starting now.

I’ll admit that I was pretty shocked at first but I’ve had some time to really think about this and I want you to know that I’m sorry we are going through such a difficult time - and I’m sorry it happened the way it did. And I know we don’t feel ready to be parents right now, but I am willing to learn how to be a good parent. In fact, we can learn together.

I’m not sure if I told you this before but I don’t think I could pick a better woman to carry my baby; a woman I know who will keep this baby safe until he/she is ready to be born. While I realize we have a tough road in front of us, I also know that along the way we will experience many joys with this new little life. I cannot wait to hold this baby in my arms and grip the hand of our child as he/she walks through life.

I want you to know that I am here for you when you’re ready to talk. It won’t be easy but we *can* and *will* get through this. We can still reach our goals. There are people out there who can help us. The way I see it, we will need to prepare, unite, and conquer - and I know we can do it! I’m ready for the challenge and I will be there for you.

We’re in this together. So, please, don’t push me away.  I’m here for you and I’d like to talk.  Please call me when you’re ready.

Love,

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