My Daughter
My girl, I know that you are going through a difficult time. It’s hard to talk to you without the intrusion of my own feelings, but here goes. As a parent I want to say “this is not what we planned; you were supposed to finish school, have financial stability”… but then I think “what if YOU weren’t planned?” I couldn’t imagine my life without you. We will work through this together because if this baby brings half the joy you have brought to me, I can’t wait. Be patient with me because I still have to sort through many things. This is part of life and life is growing in you. I just need time to absorb all of this and be there for you.
Love, Mom
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Dear ________,
I have so many things I want to say to you but I don’t know quite how to say it. I feel a mixture of shock, happiness, and hopefulness…and because I’m feeling these things all at once, I might say some things that come out the wrong way. So, please forgive me if I say anything that hurts you because hurting you is certainly not my intention.
I’ve had so many dreams for you ever since you were a little girl. One of those dreams was that one day you’d experience the joy, magic, and surprises of motherhood - and that I’d get to witness that moment in your life. I’ll admit that while I was hoping this dream would be fulfilled at a much later time in your life, I also know that we cannot always predict when we are going to be blessed with something as special as a child. This baby - this child of my child - will be loved and treasured more than words can express.
I want you to know that I am here for you to help you through this special time in your life. We will get through this together…and if we need any additional help, I know there are people out there who care about us and can help us. Please call me when you are ready to talk. I’ll be waiting for you.
Love, Mom
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